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Nephenee Knight ([personal profile] neighfeni) wrote in [community profile] mylittleooc 2015-04-14 07:18 am (UTC)

Re: Ash Blaze

I'm canonblind to all but Derpy, so I can't say anything about how you're playing anyone. But I would certainly like to do something with her or Sasami or any of them! Perhaps we can figure out something! What do they like to do?

That being said, I do have a few things I'd like to bring up, as gently as possible.

Perhaps it's just me, but in regards to Nozomi, I...seem to get the feeling that whenever you're upset irl about something or someone, it comes through in her, and possibly vice-versa. IC=/=OOC is a very important thing to learn, and can prevent a lot of problems, from what I've seen.

And while I don't have many problems with things ICly besides the above, some of your OOC reactions to things have caused me a lot of discomfort. I don't know if others have brought it to your attention, but you've griped about fellow players in Plurk in plain sight, and, while that's probably better than anoning at least, it's still very disconcerting. I don't know if you've gone to them in private or anything, but I don't think opening up discussion by griping in the OP about it will solve much beyond causing walls to go up.
In that same vein, several responses on the HMD by you have come across, at least to me, as very much headbutting the 'be polite' rule in the face. The ones I've noticed most prominently being your response to Riki and Dragon's entries. The wording was very...heated, for lack of a better term, and while I know that can be very much a 'Your Mileage May Vary' thing, saying someone's plot is 'skeevy as hell' and other things generally doesn't come across as, well, level-headed or unbiased, and not exactly polite.

So, in regards to both of these, perhaps it's a good idea to take a step back and think about wording things better when you have a problem with someone? I don't want to see you or anyone else accidentally alienate others, after all. I genuinely don't think that's your intention, so I just wanted to bring it before you and at least make you aware that it seems to come across that way.

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